Your Best Friend is Always Closer than You Think. Find Out Who It Is....

Be original! Always remember we value that which is original. Anything that is not real attracts you at the first look but after some time you do not admire it anymore as you thought it to be something else.

We sometimes identify with the things that happen in our life but really we are always free to love ourselves. Before we can have a meaning full relationship with another person it is important to come to terms with the relationship we are having with ourselves. We draw to us things that resonate at the same vibration and are in harmony with how we are feeling and thinking. If we wish to change what is showing up in our life we have to change ourselves. We have to change how we feel about things.

Negative feeling often spring from our belief system and judgements, which we make about life and living and the people who are showing up in our life. It is sometimes necessary to bring these beliefs and judgements to the surface of our mind and challenge them.

Get out of dreams and be in the real world. You have to learn to be practical in life. Pretending to be what you are not and getting into a long lasting relationship with a happy ending is to be seen in movies not in real life, off course exceptions are everywhere and it is rare. So whenever you are getting into a relationship, be honest with each other.

Another very important and a contrary point here is that if you are into a relationship since long and now are facing problems the reason could be that you have changed. Do not forget yourself in the busy life. We generally tend to forget ourselves in the busy world trying to maintain our relations, looking after the children and progressing towards our career. When you lose your real self you attract your partner less. Just ponder over the things you did for what you were admired and loved by your mate. Maybe you have changed to some extent. You don't do the things your partner liked anymore. You have forgotten your real self.

· Try to remember the look, the qualities you had and the activities you did that brought you two together
· Try recalling the things that attracted your partner towards you
· Try to be that same person again and make your relationship a long lasting and happy one!

Abagaile Odalis is a family and relationship professional with 12 years of experience in this field.


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